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Dating them could be a little challenging if not used to African men, but with some understanding, love, respect, and some home cooking, you will do just fine. I'm a sweetheart, music junkie, hopeless romantic, a sister, a friend but most importantly a chick with a whole lot to say.
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Seeing everyone jamming to this music at weddings, birthday celebrations or in their dorm rooms really made me feel like Ghanaians must have been born dancing straight out of the womb.
Usually it was a friendly encounter in the hallways, at a soccer match or out and about in town.During those two liberating years I went through a streak of casual dating, valuing the ability to keep my options open and guiltlessly concentrating on my needs.It was during this time that I discovered my self worth and developed an understanding of my likes and dislikes as an individual.Nigerian men are taught to be the head in the household, the need to take care of certain obligations for a woman comes naturally for them. An African man wants to pleasure his woman, and give her a good sexual experience; married or dating.(Paying for the date.) They don’t like to feel belittled or not in control, and because of that some are very argumentative and aggressive to protect that Alpha male, macho man persona. I don’t know what it’s like in the open public between you and your African man but I can almost guarantee it’s great behind closed doors, when you guys are… Nigerian men consider themselves great lovers, if only that were true but even though this might not be exactly true for all Nigerian men, they at least try and put that work in, if you know what I mean.
I became entranced by the fluidity that the locals possess in their dance moves and I soon learned about azonto, alkayida, and hiplife (you can’t say hiplife without mentioning the Godfather, Reggie Rockstone).