Dating guide for bigger girls
Dating isn’t easy for anyone, but I maintain that it’s harder if you’re fat.
It’s like, “How dare you be fat and expect the love and affection of another human being?
Sure, okay, preferences are preferences and props for being honest, I guess, but you’re not hiding. It’s tempting to just go with it sometimes, if only because you’re so happy to meet someone who’s interested in you, but you have to remember something: not every fetishist considers you a person. The keyword here is “object.” It’s one thing to meet someone who likes fuller figured women; it’s another to meet someone who exclusively dates fat people and gets off on the fat rather than the person. If you’re not good enough to date in daylight, then tell that jackhole to bounce. Some guys think that all fat girls are freaks in bed.
There’s no reason for anyone to go out of her or his way to tell you what you need to fix before you’re “acceptable.” Also, no, you’re beautiful, period. There’s this idea that fat women have to compensate for being fat by being wild.
There’s no “but” or “except” or “if.” The fetishists show up in droves. There’s a book, Moose, that describes the myth quite well.
The database of this site is impressively big, and the ladies are very active online.
People match with you just to tell you that you’re fat. It’s just somehow acceptable to tell fat women what they need to do differently. You hear it all the time, though, from salespeople, randos at the restaurant, your landlord, that guy who walks his dog in front of your house, and even your dates.
Being married, I thankfully do not have to deal with this anymore, but I do have a tip for you if this ever happens. You get to hear how much prettier you’d be if you lost weight over and over again. To be talking to someone who says to you, “I’d be really into you if you lost some weight” is devastating. Dating a fat girl is like having a moped because you don’t want your friends to see you riding either one, hyuck hyuck hyuck. These guys have the same lines but it basically comes down to the fact that you’re pretty, funny, and smart, but you’re fat, so they’re not looking for anything serious.
Being adventurous in bed is supposed to give us a leg up or something.
Women from Eastern Europe are a perfect example of beauty and femininity.
Even if you find a photo of yourself that you genuinely don’t hate, someone will come along and knock you down a peg or two. They can’t handle the thought of an overweight woman having the confidence to date or to even admit that she’s a romantic, sexual being looking for a relationship. Women don’t swipe on every bald guy to tell him that bald dudes don’t deserve happiness and he’s going to die alone. When you’re at the store to buy a new outfit for your upcoming date, the salesperson who’s telling you that you have such a pretty face but you should try some cardio? Why do guys who do that go out with you in the first place? We may never know the reason for the date, but we’re always pretty positive about the cause of the ghosting.