Dating or marrying a divorced man with kids

So, before you agree to a second date with this guy, seriously think about what you want, because this isn’t only about you anymore.

[Read: 50 relationship questions to test your compatibility] #2 The children come first.

Not saying he won’t be excited if he was to marry you or have a child with you.

All I’m saying is he’s already had this milestone in his life.

Which isn’t bad, however, it’s not fair for them to be introduced to you, and then you realize you’re not interested. [Read: How to keep from moving too fast in a new relationship] #6 Don’t be overly eager. So, they may view you as an intruder to their family.

So, get over your jealous emotions and get involved in your share of the team work. If he wants to introduce you to his kids after the second date, say no.

You would be with a man who neglects his own children? Any jealous behavior is going to have to be dropped because this is just the situation at hand and it’s not going to change. *Go back to rule #2* [Read: How to manage your expectations in a relationship] #4 Get to know his ex.

Since his ex is in his life, she’ll want to get to know you as well since you’re spending time with her child.

It’s an adjustment for not only you, but them as well.

They may be temperamental and opinionated around you because they’re hurt.

Because let’s face it, you’ll basically be their stepmom.