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I don't think it's exactly a reticence about sharing "personal things" so much as a sense that it can take what feels like a lot of energy to even begin to process a lot of questions into a serial verbal format suitable for pouring into someone else's ears - maybe similar to the reticence that a typical introvert might feel at the prospect of going to a crowded, noisy, busy party where they have to stand up for ages.
I'm particularly curious because I recognise a kind of reticence in myself on articulating some things.
I went into it with faith that it'd be a good thing and my spouse started scrolling on one question while I was talking (to see the next question).
If you were able to live to the age of 90 and retain either the mind or body of a 30-year old for the last 60 years of your life, which would you choose? It takes only 45 minutes and 36 questions to outwit mother nature!
If you were going to become a close friend with your partner, please share what would be important for him or her to know. I think you'd need to pick and choose among these questions and see how the conversation went.
Do you feel your childhood was happier than most other people's? How do you feel about your relationship with your mother? Complete this sentence "I wish I had someone with whom I could share..." 27. Be honest this time, saying things that you might not say to someone you've just met. Share with your partner an embarrassing moment in your life. I believe that is best left to later in the relationship discussions.
It's easy to get busy in life and neglect the most important relationship you have.
If you really have an interest in sharing these questions with your husband (which is why I assume you read the article), maybe try a non-typical approach to the typical male attitude. Many males respond good to a "reward for participation" deal, and may find that opening up, even a little, is the real reward.
Or you might want to use it to deepen intimacy later. But the questions are designed to override evolution, the unconscious influence of pheremones and the complementary immune responses of compatible couples--not to mention involuntary physical attraction and repulsion. Name three things you and your partner appear to have in common. Someone who asks in a way I feel is invasive, demanding or not-listening still would not make me feel closer--again, whether it's this list of questions or any other. But sometimes in real life we want to slow the process down. What roles do love and affection play in your life? Alternate sharing something you consider a positive characteristic of your partner. The questions were developed as part of a scientific study intended to establish that intimacy can be developed quickly.