Is dating a younger woman wrong
Mistake 1: Trying To Act Younger This is the granddaddy of them all.
All the time I’m running into guys who tell me things like “I’m 36, but I look 30, so I tell women I’m 29.” Less often, though still regularly, I see guys in their 30s and even 40s who try to dress, act, and talk like men in their 20s.
You take care of your physical appearance more than you did when you were a younger dude. I’ve made numerous posts about this lately, so click around this blog and take a look at a few if you have not read them yet. This does not mean you need to look like George Clooney.
This means that when you’re escalating on a woman, you need to push the envelope.Some older guys think they can wing it with their personal appearance and look just like a normal, every day guy just like they did back when they were 25.These guys dress like nerds, have hair and grooming that look like crap, and worse, are often way too skinny or fat. You could dress like crap and not worry about your hair or your clothing too much, and still probably get laid.Even if you think she might consider what you’re doing “creepy”, you need to go for it.That doesn’t mean you cross the line, but it does mean you are very aggressive, and err on the side of “creepy” rather than “nice guy”.
You are destroying the very thing these Type 2s crave.