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As a source told , Dobrev "[was] just not ready to make that huge commitment yet," and might prefer to wait "about 10 years." As the magazine observed, it was highly unlikely Somerhalder wanted to wait until he's 44 to get really serious.

Even though it's clear Nina Dobrev and Ian Somerhalder really cared about each other, it's also clear they weren't necessarily on the same page about where their relationship was headed.

Although Nina Dobrev and Ian Somerhalder looked as though they were close in age, in actuality, Dobrev was 24 and Somerhalder 34 when their three-year relationship came to an end.

However, it's worth noting that relationships between co-workers can be a tricky situation.

He played Hamilton Fleming, the son of the dean of a prestigious boarding school.

In 2002, Somerhalder played bisexual character Paul Denton in Roger Avary's adaptation of Bret Easton Ellis' novel, The Rules of Attraction, alongside James Van Der Beek, Shannyn Sossamon, and Jessica Biel.

This is made evident by Somerhalder, who cryptically tweeted out, "A thought for today: 'People change and forget to tell each other.'" Did Dobrev initially agree to a long-term relationship, only to eventually decide it wasn't what she One of the reasons Ian Somerhalder was supposedly more than ready to tie the knot was probably because he felt comfortable about where his life and career were at that moment.

It makes sense as Somerhalder's career stretches back to the late 1990s.

"I think it could definitely get sticky if you dated your costar," she said in an interview with (via MTV) just one year before her relationship with Somerhalder was revealed.