What are the hotspots that make both of you tense and unwilling to compromise?
The way you react to conflict plays a major role in the health and overall wellbeing of your marriage.Even more powerful is the effect of listening to your partner’s point of view fully (without trying to conjure up a rebuttal) and then saying, “you’re right.” Try this. More importantly, watch your broken marriage begin to be repaired.Being heard by your partner is one of the greatest feelings.Train your mind to focus on the good attributes and actions of your spouse.Focus on what they are doing right and the efforts that they do make. If you had the day or experiences that they have had, how would that feel and how would that affect your feelings.
A sincere compliment or show of appreciation changes the course of their day.